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Take Heart! Advice for Fledgling Creatives and Entrepreneurs

I've been a copywriter and online entrepreneur for almost a decade now. And in that time, I've come up with so many business ideas and creative projects that many of them never saw the light of day. But just because my ideas failed doesn't mean that I didn't get anything from the experience. 

With every failed experiment came a lesson that made me a better person and set me up for the next opportunity. 

The following advice is a compendium of these lessons as well as affirmations that I live by and sometimes have had to repeat to myself along the way when things get tough. 

Make no mistake, as a young, black, female entrepreneur coming from a ‘disadvantaged’ background in South Africa pursuing the type of dreams I have, mine has not been an easy road. 

But I chose this path because I believe in myself and my ideas. And I believe that I have a truth and perspective that only I can share with the world. And I knew early on in life that I wouldn’t be able to achieve that mission and share that gift through a 9- 5 job. So I chose a path that is honestly, very difficult, but totally worth it.

If you find yourself on a similar path, here are a few nuggets of advice that I would give to my younger self, or anyone that likes the idea of living life purposefully. 

1WORK
American entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk put it best when he said, 'there’s isn’t a single person on the planet who became successful without putting in hard work. Not a single one.'

Truth is, we all have to pay our dues and you really do get what you put into life. It’s that simple. If you want to make lots of money, live a life of comfort, or you just want the freedom to be able to do what you want to do when you want to do it, then work is required.

And it doesn’t matter how talented you are. If you don’t put in the work, you simply won’t get what you want. 

2BE PATIENT

Almost every entrepreneur I know (myself included) starts the journey with a level of excitement, self-assurance and optimism that would beguile Spongebob Squarepants himself.

You come in guns-blazing with a can-do attitude, an infallible plan and a (premature) assumption that everything’s going to pan out exactly as you planned.

But as I've learnt, the business world doesn’t work like that. Life will take you through so many serendipitous detours that you’ll have absolutely no choice but to adapt and grow.

All this comes with a level of patience I cannot explain. It takes patience to deliver constant quality without receiving comparable compensation. It takes patience to knock on the same doors every day and being repeatedly told ‘no’. It takes patience to convince customers to buy your product. It takes patience to know that even though it hasn’t happened yet, you’ll eventually convert your first customers through your marketing funnel. 

And what do you call doubling down on the hard work every day while still not seeing the results you imagined? Patience my friend. And you’re going to need an endless supply of it along the journey. Otherwise you won’t enjoy it.

In a nutshell, accept that things won’t always go as planned and that you might have to wait a little longer before you get your preferred piece of the pie. 

DON'T GIVE UP

Starting something, whether it’s a business, an organisation or a movement is not easy, but maintaining it is even harder.

Think long hours and sleepless nights of doing unpaid work for ‘exposure’ (see: internships). The life of a creative entrepreneur is a thankless profession in the beginning and you’ll encounter a lot of disappointing moments that can deter you from continuing. This an opportune time to employ your patience and keep going, even when things seem unbearable.

To  not give up is one of the best pieces of advice that I got early on in my career as an entrepreneur, and it’s something that’s stayed with me ever since. Things will get hard, you will encounter challenges that you’ve never even imagined on your journey, but the most important thing is to just keep going and to not give up in the face of adversity. Because being an entrepreneur is just that. It’s waking up every morning to look adversity in the eye day in day out. So stay strong!

TRUST YOUR IDEAS
At first, most people won’t understand or even believe in your ideas. Your friends and family may even try to convince you to be ‘normal’, give up, and follow a more conventional path. 

Then there’ll be industry players and know-it-alls who say NO to you because they’re not familiar with what you’re bringing to the table.  And because they’re in positions of power and influence you may be tempted to believe them and give up. Don’t.

You see, what sets an entrepreneurs apart is their ability to do something that hasn’t been done before. And every innovator and creator in the world has had to face multiple rejections and even outright ridicule before they ‘made it’. Look at BeyoncĂ©. She had to deal with rejection from a very young age, performing for ruthlessly unappreciative audiences who never thought for a second that she'd become one of the world’s most iconic entertainers of all time. 

World-renowned business coach Marie Forleo gave the best advice when she said, “stay on your game and keep going for your dreams. The world needs that special gift that only you have.” And if the haters don’t see it, that's fine. Because one day they'll be asking for your autograph, advice, or both, and you'll remember their ridicule and rejection with a fondness known only to those who've experienced it. 

GET A MENTOR

Having someone in your corner who understands what you’re going through because of their own experience is key to the success of a young entrepreneur. Mentors will share with you priceless advice and give you guidance that you can’t learn from a textbook or from attending ‘entrepreneurship’ class. It’s practical advice based on real life experience gained from ‘doing stuff’ and being successful at it.

Of course, a mentor isn’t there to hold your hand, but having one means that you'll make fewer mistakes and you’ll have access to more opportunities and resources than you would otherwise. 

So if you haven’t already, seek out a mentor who shares the same interests and is, or has experienced the level of success you aspire to.

ADVERTISE ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Marketing is the backbone of any business whether you’re selling a product or offering a service. It’s important that you get the word out there about your business so that you can attract the right kind of customers.

One of the best ways to do this is through social media marketing. This is one of the simplest and cheapest ways for a millennial creative entrepreneur to market themselves as it allows you to engage with your customers in real time, gaining valuable feedback that can really help to grow your business.

Remember to post often and provide great customer service by responding quickly to comments on your content. Make your customers feel special by thanking them for their interest in your product and wow them with knowledge of what you’re selling. That, and being authentic makes social media a joy to work with when marketing your business or brand. 


And there you have it!
Just some of the tips that have shaped me as a creative entrepreneur and powered me through some of the most challenging moments that I’ve had to face. Granted, everyone’s situation is different but I’ve found through interaction with like-mined individuals that we all face common challenges and that these tools work regardless of age, era or circumstances. 

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